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Insecurity and self-blame bring all sorts of negative circumstances in our life from low income to jealousy to shyness. By overcoming negative perceptions about yourself, you can heal from your insecurity and immediately open the door to dreams that you never thought could come true.
During our lives we pick up beliefs about ourselves. In our childhood we tend to accept these beliefs without judgment because we have nothing to compare it to. Unfortunately, that belief system may have created a negative perception of who you are especially if they were reinforced in a life in which parents, teachers, or other kids in school made you feel less than good enough, too fat, too skinny, unattractive or any other negative beliefs that you may carry in your life today.
As you read this, you may even be remembering times when you were teased, embarrassed or punished causing you to notice some uncomfortable feelings within you. These feelings let you know that certain memories are still living inside of you and are subconsciously preventing you from feeling secure. These memories and the feelings attached to them are called an “emotional anchor”. These anchors especially show themselves in situations when you feel stressed, leaving you with thoughts of inadequacy, despite knowing consciously that as an adult you are more then capable.
By now, you may be noticing a conflict between what you think (the conscious mind) and how you feel (the subconscious mind). Truth of the matter is, if you could think your problems away then you would already be feeling secure. Unfortunately, the subconscious anchors of inadequacy always prevail leaving you with feelings of insecurity.
Cassandra’s process helps you release emotions in order for you to feel more comfortable with yourself. Changing on a feeling level is needed to become more confident as confidence is not learned on a cognitive level.. Merely thinking confidently doesn’t give you what you need to feel confident about speaking in front of a group of 500 people, or going to any social event feeling completely at ease. She uses your past to push you forward feeling more at peace and at ease with yourself and the world.
“Oh my god! You are so great! My interview went fantastic. I was so confident and spoke with clarity and found that it was the most positive interview I'd ever been in.
Thank you, thank you, thank you!”
Jenn,
San Francisco, CA
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